Informed
After my wife left me for another man, I filed for divorced. i knew that my wife was going to want the kids, so I did my research before I even gave her the divorce papers. I compiled a huge database of information on child custody so I would know exactly what I needed to do when the time came. My wife hired a lawyer to take the kids, but i hired a lawyer as well. I ended up winning the case because my wife has some serious problems. One of the main reasons I won the case is because I was totally informed beforehand.
